An Ode to Family & Friends

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Today is Father’s Day.

Image courtesy of CCTV for all Slaughterhouses

Feelings of Melancholy and Regret. A Heavy Heart and Hope for New Beginnings.

Reflections on A Refusal to Accept and Appreciate A Daughter’s Needs and Desires.

Memories that Awaken Mournful Senses and Low Spirits.

An Unsettled Mind. An Unsatisfied Heart. No Closure. No Resolution.

Family are Not the Friends you’d Choose for Yourself. It’s True.

But Deep in my Soul, I know the Family that I spent my Formative Years with, have a part to play in the Person I’ve become.

If only they could see that the Person I’ve become isn’t so Different from them.

We are So alike them and I. 

It is the Cultural Norm, Force of Habit & Resistance to Change that Perpetuates this Void, this Uneasiness, this Refusal to try and Understand.

If only they could Respect my Alternative Views.

My Radical Sense of Self.

My Freethinking Ways.

MY VALUES & BELIEFS.

If Only they could See that I have My Integrity, I am Connected to Me & My Soul is at Peace.

If Only they knew that All this is Because, Despite All the Heartache & Pain

They gave me the Strengh to Stand up for what I Believe to be True, Honest & Right.

They Care Deeply for Others and Spend their time Giving to those in Need.

That’s me too. So Why can’t we give to Each Other?

The Family I have Built Around me Acknowlege My Deepest Feelings, My Guiding Principles, My Complete Convictions.

They Inspire and Support me in My Cause and from them I find my Strengh.

My Friends and Family of whom I don’t feel Understood but Feel a Desire from them TO Understand. I want to say this…

I am Sorry for the times when I am Uncommunicative and Distant.

I Apologise for acting like a Social Recluse & Loner.

I Acknowlege I can be Tunnel Visioned, Guarded and Stubborn in my Outlook.

I Confess I can be Miserable and Unresponsive.

I Aspire Not to Demonstrate Any of the Above Negativity.

I Strive to Wake up & Smell the Roses, to Re-Enter the Loop of Friendship.

All I need is for You to Truly Understand WHY I behave in such Ways,

Once I KNOW you DO, I will also KNOW that you Respect my Unshakable Belief in Compassion for ALL EARTHLINGS.

And if you RESPECT & ACKNOWLEDGE my Compassion, Will you too Not Open your Hearts & Minds to the Reality of Life on Earth for Your Fellow Relations

Will you Allow yourselves to become Aware of their Needs and Dependence on YOU, US.

Will you Wake up to Also Consider that your Actions have Far Reaching Consequences for YOUR Future Generations

Will you PLEASE just Widen YOUR Circle of Compassion to Include ALL Animals, Not just of the Human or Pet Sort.

You Cannot Continue to listen to Me but Continue to do Nothing. That makes you Complicit in Suffering & Brutality.

Please See me as that Person who dedicates what time she can to Allieviating Suffering and Raising Consciousness.

Understand me as the Person who is the Change She Wants and Needs to See in the World.

If you Understand me as that Person, then you will Understand that My Way of Living and Being in this World seeks Only to Add More Love and Create less Fear.

I expect to pass through this world but once; any good thing therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now; let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again. ~Ettiene De Grellet~

And I hope you will Join me on the Journey so I can Share it with All those who Mean so Much to Me.

Your Continued Ignorance will Only Serve to Create the Rift that Threatens to Engulf My Friendships.

You Are my Friends & Family because on so Many Levels,  You and I are Alike. We Wouldn’t have Found Each Other otherwise Or We would have left Each Other behind.

I want to tell you that I Respect your Views but I cannot Respect Choices that Reflect the Imprisonment, Fear, Pain and Murder of YOUR Animal Citizens.

Virtually every atrocity in the history of humankind was enabled by a populace that turned away from a reality that seemed too painful to face, while virtually every revolution for peace and justice has been made possible by a group of people who chose to bear witness and demanded that others bear witness as well. ~ Melanie Joy.

I will ALWAYS Love you but I Also LOVE All my Fellow, Defenceless & Helpless Animal Relations who do Us No Harm and have No Power of Resistance,  who are Unable to Defend and Protect themselves.

My Friends and Family -  You have a Voice. My Animal Friends Don’t and that is Why I choose to Be theirs.

I Choose to be a Living Protest for the Protection of all Those I share This Planet with. My Choices reflect My Deepest Values..

Follow me, Don’t Just Respect and Listen to me. Animals & Humans Suffer alike. Both are Citizens of this Earth, Both have a right to Freedom, Family & Life. Violence against both causes the Same Pain.

All Life is Important. All Feel Fear, Pain, Love & Bereavement. All Life should be Valued & Nurtured. We Are All Animals and we are ALL someONE, not someTHING.

Image courtesy of Evolve Campaigns

My Family and Friends, If you have Listened to Me, If you Understand what drives my Sense of Purpose, You Have to Take Action or You Will Continue to Take Lives.

Veganfly Aspirations

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Being Vegan is so Much More than  Just a Word to describe me.

It represents how I feel about Animal Rights, Animal Liberation and Animal Welfare. It is my Badge of Honour that I wear with Pride and describes my Committment to Saving Lives, Reducing Suffering and Making a Difference and Contributing to Positive Change.

Since I became Vegan, I feel Honest and True to myself and My Animal Kin. I Feel More Spiritually Connected to Mother Nature and the Universe.

I have thought about writing a blog for some time. We’ve all got a story to tell and I have been taught so much by listening to other people’s stories. I have met so many people with fascinating backgrounds and incredible tales of survival. I have learnt humility and gratitude from these passionate, strong, determined, tenacious and motivated individuals.

So, here I am, taking my first amateur steps in blogging land, and hoping that what I have to write may inspire someone in the same way that those people have touched me and helped to shape the person I am now and the person I strive to become.

If I was asked what Animal I would most Identify with, I would think of the Dragonfly & I would call Myself a “VeganFly”!

The Dragonfly perfectly represents the wonder of our world with it’s elegance and loveliness. The Dragonfly represents change and our ability to strive for self actualisation and find the deeper meaning of life through a spiritual awakening. This is something I aspire to keep doing. I believe that we must go through several growth experiences in life before we experience our true purpose and get to a place of inner peace. We have to make life happen, things won’t happen to us unless we are proactive in enabling them to happen. We have to keep moving forward if we want to achive our goals, and hopefully make a positive statement on the world and effect real change.

The Dragonfly also reminds us to live in the moment because it lives as an adult dragonfly for not more than a few months. Therefore it has to mature and reproduce in this short space of time. Living in the present, rather than the future means we will appreciate what we have in the moment rather than always looking for something more. By living in the moment, you stay aware of who you are, where you are, what you are doing and what you do and don’t want. This is a skill we can all benefit from in our busy lives as it allows us to make informed choices on a moment to moment basis and if we do this, we can avoid regretting our decisions.

As you may have read in my Last Post, I have been struggling with the Different Attitudes of my Friends and Families who do not Share my Vegan Values. For the survival of my Friendships, I must become a “VeganFly” so I remain in the Present instead of Predicting the Future or Resenting the Past.  By Living in the Moment I can appreciate What I have, Who I have around me and Why I do what I do. By Living in the Moment, I can Believe that there  is hope that Attitudes of those in my Circle May start to be challenged and that Change is Possible.

I believe that through our own force of will and intellect, we chart our own path through life. By making the right choices, we can all be predestined for something great. It is our own free will that mucks it up. Sometimes we can be yanked dramatically off this path by fate, chance or coincidence; The people who intersect us on our path can change what our fated destiny is for better or worse. One event might be the catylyst for a thousand other things. However, if we take the opportunities life gives us and use them to our advantage, I believe pretty much anything is achievable!

“The point is, Not to survive, but to thrive with passion, compassion, humour and style”

……………………….. Maya Angelou

I am all too aware however that there are too many people for whom the above statement really can’t be applied. In this global village that we live, there are people fighting for, not only their civil and political rights, but also their economic, social and cultural rights. There are people for whom the basic right of a drink of clean water is denied to them, and for whom, opportunities are non exsistent. I live my life feeling guilty that, by a error of geography, I live in a country where, in the most part, there ARE opportunities, even though, for some, they will have to face more challenges for these occasions to present themselves.

I will have reached Self Realisation when I have done something Great that will have an impact on the earth and it’s inhabitants. Something that will have Positive Conseqences for those people who do not have the opportunities that I have been so blessed with, and for the Animals who are at the Total Mercy of HumanKind

“Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud, do not complain, never whine; Be certain that you do not die without having done something wonderful for humanity”    

………………….  Maya Angelou

 

Acceptance & Tolerance

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Well, here I am 4 posts into my ValuingVeganism Blog. Blogging and Keeping up a Community FaceBook Page is extrememly Enjoyable, Feels WorthWhile but is extremely Time Consuming!

Over the last year, since my fire has been re-ignited, I have become increasingly Radical about my Animal Rights Crusade. I have met some Lovely people on the Journey so Far and Hope to meet So Many More Like Minded Friends.

Unfortunately, I have started to neglect my Old Friends as I become More and More Fervent and Passionate about what I feel I Have to do.

This has started to have a negative effect on me recently as I have needed Old Friends who know me but, because they don’t share my Passion on Animal Rights, because they are not Vegan & not even Vegetarian, I have slowly been pushing them away.

On Reflection, my actions are due to feeling Unsupported and Disillusioned as I saw No Change in Attitude in those around me. They Listened but they didn’t take Action & maybe I have Unconsciously pushed them away in my Frustration and Annoyance that those closest to me Cannot share these particular Values of mine.

I feel so Strongly about being Vegan and why I have made this choice that it’s hard to accept that Wonderful Friends who I have been through so Much with, With Whom I share so many Other Values & Beliefs, cannot Join me on this journey.

Today, I need to change the Attitude I have developed towards them. I need to challenge myself because if I don’t, I stand to loose ALOT of Love, Support & Friendship.

I have spent alot of time Making New Friends who DO share my Vegan Values & Beliefs. However many of these New Friends, are, in fact Virtual Friends though Animal Rights & Vegan Communitiy pages on FaceBook.

These “Friends” are Fantastic and I have learnt so much and developed a Wonderful Support Network of people I can share my Pain and Incomprehension with. However I need my “Real” Friends also because, even though many of them don’t necessarily share my Vegan Values, They do understand me. Of Course they do,  if they didn’t, I wouldn’t have become Friends with them in the 1st place.

So Today, I am going to Heal the Rift I have Created because I need my Friends. I need their Support even if they won’t convert to Vegetarianism or Veganism.

And what I need to remember actually, is that in the last 3 months, I have actually influenced 1 Friend to go Veggie, and another is considering going Vegan.

I Need to remember my Successes, NOT my Failures!

As we All do in the Animal Rights Movement…. Negatives will ALWAYS outweigh the Positives; Failure will ALWAYS outnumber the Successes;        But as long As we continue to recognise that things are Changing, however slowly, we can build on our Momentum and Pull Together for Greater, More Powerful Change.

Raising Awareness and Education is the Way Forward for Me and I will continue to Do this, but I must not Loose my Friends along the way and I must not Loose Sight of the Fact that I am, in fact, Raising Awareness among my Circle, which I will not be able to if I continue to push them away.

So today is about appreciating what I have. What Enables and Encourages me to Enhance the Quality of my Life because If I am Happy and Strong, I am a Much Better Friend & Advocate of both My Fellow Human Beings and of My Fellow Animal Relations.

Life is full of ups and downs and we are facing challenges every day. It is how we approach and deal with those problems that determines whether they have a positive or negative impact on our lives.

So, here I am sharing with you some Recipies for Happiness, Encouragement, Positivity & Hope

  • Walk for at least 20 mins every day and SMILE!
  • Sit quietly for at least 10 mins every day
  • Write down a list of your goals each night for the next day. This can help you to feel organised which frees you from that feeling of not knowing where to start!
  • Listen to relaxing music, it is good nourishment for the soul
  • Dance!
  • Live the 3 “E’s” – Enjoyment, Enthusiasm and Empathy
  • Tap into your Silly Self and make your kids laugh!
  • Read thought provoking, interesting and life changing books
  • Look at the sky at least once daily and appreciate the majesty of the world that surrounds us
  • DayDream!
  • Eat more Plant based foods
  • Eat less manufactured foods
  • Drink plenty of water
  • Eat dinner as a family and make a toast every day to something good that has happened that day
  • Try to make at least 3 people laugh every day
  • Don’t spend your precious time immersed in negative thoughts or things beyond your control. Instead, concentrate on what you can change. It is better to invest your energy in the postive present
  • Life is a school and we are here to learn. Problems are lessons that come and go. What we learn from them will serve us for the rest of our lives
  • Always eat breakfast to give you energy to face the challenges the day may bring. FOOD IS MOOD!
  • Elimate clutter in your home and let a new energy enter your life
  • Smile and Laugh More Often
  • Do not let the opportunity pass to Hug a Friend
  • Life is too short to waste time hating someone
  • Don’t take yourself too seriously, No one else does!
  • Make peace with your past, so as not to ruin the present
  • It’s not neccessary to win every argument. Assertiveness is about being heard not gettig what you want.
  • Don’t compare your life with others. You have no idea of the highways they have travelled during their lives. Walk in their shoes before commenting!
  • Nobody is responsible for your happiness except yourself
  • Remember that we have no control over what happens to us, only what we do
  • We cannot change how someone else behaves, only our reactions towards them.
  • What others think of us is not completely under our control. We cannot be liked by everyone!
  • Learn something new every day, a new word, a new fact, a new activity, a new song etc…
  • Appreciate your body, it’s marvellous
  • Remember, hard times WILL pass. Situations WILL change
  • Stay in touch with Friends. They will always be there for you.
  • Reject everything that is not useful, beautiful or amusing
  • Don’t loose time. We already have all the things we need
  • Don’t be afraid to Cry. BE EMOTIONAL, it’s good for you!
  • The best is yet to come

  • Do something for someone EVERYday
  • Each Day, before going to sleep, Acknowledge something postive that has happened that day  
  • Remember, we have too much that is good to be stressed

  • Your health is your most important gift. Look after it
  • Don’t miss the Beautiful
  • Enjoy the voyage. There is only 1 chance to be successful
  • Life is beautiful, You must appreciate it as much as possible
  • FEED THE BIRDS!
  • Have a wonderful journey!

Help & Hindrance

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Last night I watched a thought provoking episode of Natural World which aired some months ago.

Silky Sifakas (picture from National Geographic)

Although I love Nature, Wildlife, the Environment & ALL Animal Kind, it is rare I watch programmes about them because we don’t have a TV and because I get distressed when I see the cycle of life take place before my eyes, even though I know it is a completely Natural Process and As opposite as posssible to the Terror and Humankind inflict on their Animal Relations.

image courtesy of League against Cruel Sports

image courtesy of National Geographic

Once upon a time, I went to Zambia. I was lucky to go but it was also a difficult decision for many reasons. However, go I did, only for two weeks and it was maybe one of the most intense experiences of my whole life.
I met passionate environmentalists and conservationists and wondered why I hadn’t chosen this path for myself.

I was enthralled by the magic and beauty of the Zambian culture and, of course the Wildlife.


Without going into the story behind this trip, I wanted to touch on this experience because during mytrip to Zambia, I went out on to the National Parks and Game Reserves and witnessed the wonder of the Natural World for myself.


It was awe inspiring and took my breath away. I could barely believe that I was there. I felt like I was in another world, I felt overwhelmed but also as if I belonged.


So, I came home and as the memories faded I started to acknowledge that my experience would have been very different had I witnessed the cycle of life right in front of  my very eyes!
The strange thing is, that when I was there, I didn’t even consider that I might see a kill or an injured animal. The magnificance of the landscape completely overtook my senses and I could only see the wonder and beauty. Thank goodnesss!
If someone offered me the chance to go on safari now, I would turn down the opportunity because I am very acutely aware that I was incredibly lucky not to witness any bloodshed. I was completely naive to the fact that it was out there and could have revealed itself to me at any time. But it didn’t and I believe it wasn’t meant to. I was only there to witness the glory of the Natural World, not the goryness of it. My  Earth Mother Spirit, was watching out for me.

I am Vegan because images of Cruelty, Bloodshed and Killing distress me So much….But I acknowledge that Nature is Cruel because it has to be. It doesn’t sicken me like the knowledge of what My own Kind does to it’s Fellow Relations, but it does Upset me and if I can avoid seeing it I will.

However, as much as I could avoid looking at images and watching Film of the horror inflicted upon Animal Kind by Humans, I don’t because it is these images that continually remind me why I am part of the Animal Rights Movement. I NEED to keep reminding myself of these because it it this knowledge that Fuels the Fire in my Stomach to give as Much Time as I can to the Cause. These images are completely Unnatural and Need to be shown and seen. Animals hunting prey to survive is a Natural Process, sometimes Cruel and Upsetting to see, But NATURAL. They NEED to Hunt to Survive. We Do NOT need to KILL to Survive.

image courtesy of Animal Aid

…………..So Last night I watched Madagascar, Lemurs & Spies which told us about the complicated life of the Silky Sifakas and the fight to preserve this endangered species of Lemur.
There were no difficult to watch scenes as far as the animals were concerned.
It was difficult to watch however because it was essentially the story about how humankind is ravaging our planet.
This story concentrates on the  pillaging  of Rosewood and Ebony trees in the protected rainforst national parks in Madagascar. Many of these trees are centurys old. The illegal logging is destroying diversity, Flora and Flauna unique to Madagascar. This is the food of the Silky Sifakas which is why these lovely creatures could never survive in captivity because their diet is so Unique.
Madagascar has great biodiversity. Three quarters of the 200,000 species found there, do not exsist anywhere else, however, with the illegal logging, a large number of the large species are now extinct and more that  80% of the original forest cover has disappeared.

Madagascan Rainforest, Picture from National Geographic

In 2009, loggers took an estimated 100,000 rosewood and ebony trees out of the forests after a coup which saw an already  poor country plunged into a political and economic crisis.
These trees are so heavy that it takes many men to pull them down to the river and then another 5 -6 trees have to be cut down to float one of these trees down the various rivers to the production sites. This has led to extensive deforestation and the loggers set up camp deep in these forests which means they kill and eat the forest animals including the various Lemur Species.

Logged Rosewood, picture from National Geographic

The programme told us about the efforts of two men, a passionate scientist who has dedicated much of his life to protecting and studying the Silky Sifakas, and an Undercover Detective from Washington, to expose the illegal logging trade to ensure the long term survival of these beautiful primates.
As I watched this programme, my attention was focused on this struggle between destruction and survival and I was so aware that this was about a group of individuals with a conscience  trying to do the right thing, resisting a group of individuals with no conscience, doing absolutely the wrong thing.
And I found  myself appreciating that our societiey is made up of those that fight for justice, freedom and awareness, and those who are or choose to be ignorant and continue to destroy, devastate and wreck. I became aware of the eternal struggle between good and evil.
These two men and their teams faced great personal danger to expose this illegal trade and bring it to the world’s attention but they did not let that distract them from their ultimate  mission to save the precious rainforests and wildlife of Madagascar.
I have such admiration for Inspiring Individuals such as these passionate activists. People who truly stand up for what they believe in and put their beliefs into action. I watch their stories and am in awe of their dedication, steadfastness and resolve to bring about change. I have nothing but respect and love for their determination and passion.

Dr Erik Patel,  Picture from BBc website

But as I watched this programme,  I felt sadness that there is a need for individuals to continually fight against the wrongs done by other individuals and I wondered why there is such disparity between our values.
If I didn’t have to work, I would use the time to learn and what I would like to study is Social Sciences. How does society shape people?  Where do our Values and Beliefs come from? How are differences and inequalities produced? How is society shaped not just by humans but by material objects and the environment? How are we connected and disconnected from each other and how do we see each other and others?
There is a Social Psychologist called Johathan Haidt who studies how and why we evolved to be moral. He believes that by understanding our moral roots, we can learn to be civil and open minded. He says that we are not purely selfish and that most people long to overcome pettiness and become something wonderful.
Two of his quotes which I think fit perfectly for this post is:

 The most powerful force ever known on this planet is human co-operation – A force for construction and destruction

If our goal is to understand the world, to seek a deeper understaning, our general lack of moral diversity here is to make it harder. Because when people all share values, when people all share morals, they become a team

One of the reasons I found Jonathan Haidt is because I was looking at his TED talk on Religion, Evolution and Self – Transcendence.

I am interested in Transcendence – the belief that we can expand to identify with all humanity and other aspects of the world beyond the body. In doing so, we transcend conditions of seperateness and isolation, which are the source of much misery and angst. By recognising the Inherent Unity of all Exsistence, we experience subsequent feelings of Belonging, Oneness and Peace.

I wish that these loggers could relate to this Transcendent Sense of Self because maybe then they would care for the protection of free nature as the protection of themselves.

Are not All beings on this planet, structures, who are sustained by an influx of Matter and Energy that starts at the sun and is channelled throuogh plants, up food chains to us. Therefore, any seperation in time or space between us and the Natural World is a projection of the mind.

So this post is about How humanity can Help our relationship with the Natural World and Our Fellow Relations or completely Hinder it. How a group of like minded individuals with the right beliefs can make a difference when opposing a group of like minded individuals with the wrong beliefs but how it is a constant battle. All of us in the Animal Rights Movement will Identify with this Battle.
Although I have a Transcendent Sense of self with Mother Earth, I have a long way to go before I can expand my sense of self to identify with those ignorant individuals that plunder,destroy, kill, hurt and ravage our Natural World and Fellow Souls.

What I do understand is the power of money. If you are poor and need to feed yourself and family, if you are fighting for survival then the lure of $1 a day to cut down trees in a protected rainforest, even if you know it is illegal, must override any part of your conscience telling you it is morally wrong.
What I do understand is that if you fear for your life because you have become entangled in a situation which feels dangerous to leave, then you  may stay in that situation rather than be brave and speak out against it.
What I do understand is that we in the western world are aware of the environmental damage we are wreaking on our planet. We have been blessed with an education and given the opportunity to observe individuals with good morals and values who are  raising awareness of our impact on the environment.

Many of us choose to listen and make changes to our lives to effect better outcomes for the earth.

Some of us however, choose to remain ignorant and lazy.

What I do understand is that, For those loggers who are living in one of the world’s poorest countries where 70% of the population suffer from malnutrition and where there is little education system, poverty, fear and ignorance is the driving force behind their actions. So I can begin to transcend the feelings of separateness I have from them so I can challenge my anger and frustration at their actions.

I Cannot however, understand why the educated, intelligent business men at the top of the chain continue to authorise action which they know is morally wrong and illegal. THey are choosing to be ignorant.  They have the information, They know what they are doing is wrong in every way for every reason, but they are greedy and power hungry, selfish and egotistic.

I Feel Frustration & Despair at those around me who Continue to fund the Cruelty to Their Fellow Kind just for the taste of Flesh. Ignorance and Selfishness Fuels this Behaviour.

It is these individuals who drive the force of Evil that the Forces of Good continue to fight.

The story of our Madagascan Lemurs does end on a happy and hopeful note though.
The efforts of our Scientist and Detective resulted in the biggest importers of the Precious wood, Gibson Guitars, being raided and thousands of pounds worth of wood seized.
This had an immediate impact on the illegal logging trade in Madagascar. The illegal logging has greatly reduced and for now, the Silky Sifakas are safe again.
This was truly a story of how Hope, Belief, Determination, Dedication, Passion and Hard &Dangerous work, led to a Positive and Favourable Conclusion.
It is a story of Good overcoming Bad!
It gave me hope!
May we all continue to have hope and stand up for what we know is wrong.

Culture of Compassion

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I am challenged  Regularly about my Decisions to become Vegan and to Spend my Spare time, Campaigning for Animal Rights.

Picture Courtesy of Animal Aid

Just the other day, Someone very close to me implied that I should be more concerned with Human Rights and what is happening in Syria right now.

This Cut Deep and Hurt me. I explained that My Compassion is Not limited to Non Humans but that I have chosen to be an Animal Advocate because Our Fellow Relations are totally at the mercy of the Human Species and are unable to organise themselves and raise awareness of their plight on their own,  so I choose to be their voice.

Picture Courtesy of CCTV for all SlaughterHouses

Many People believe that we, in the Animal Rights Movement, should be Investing our Time & Energy into saving Humans rather than Animals.

Appauling Suffering is being endured daily  by Humans all Over the World on a Vast Scale.

Appauling Suffering is also being endured daily by Animals All Over the World on a Vast Scale.

The Difference is this….. The Suffering of our Fellow Relations does not receive the News coverage that, quite rightly, the suffering of Our Fellow Brothers does.

The PETA film…”If SlaughterHouses had Glass Walls” does not receive National Press coverage. If it did, surely, there would be a Huge Collective Understanding of why the Animal Rights Movement exsists.

However, the Truth hurts, and that hurt causes people to become Defensive and Complain, as recently demonstrated by the footage of day old calves being shot in Channel 4′s “Jimmy & the Giant SuperMarket. This received over 50 complaints about these “harrowing” scenes, even though I’m sure many of those complaining were meat and dairy consumers for whom the knowledge of where their food comes from was just to difficult to acknowledge.

It causes less headache for those in the media, who have the power to show the Truth, to shirk from the responsibility to avoid the repercussions that doing so would bring.

picture courtesy of CCTV for All slaughterhouses

And it is easier for those for whom the Truth  is a Truth too much, to remain Ignorant.

picture courtesy of CCTV for all slaughterhouses

I hope that in time, My Friends and Family will learn that my Compassion for Animals is driven by my Desire only for a Kinder World where I feel I can belong because, in a world that inflicts such unkindness, cruelty and Pain on it’s inhabitants, I find it hard to belong.

Picture courtesy of CCTV for All Slaughterhouses

I hope that I can join  the millions of other Animal Right Campaigners and Activists across the globe to spread the message among my immediate community that Life is Life and we ALL have a right to live it, No matter what our Species.

Picture courtesy of CCTV for all SlaughterHouse

I feel total Incomprehension and Indescribable Distress at  the Greed and Indifference of my Fellow Humans, that makes the lives of so many of our Fellow Souls, a living hell. It is this Pain that Fuels the Fire in my soul which strengens my resolve daily to keep going with  my Crusade even in the face of apathy and unwillingness to Listen.

Picture courtesy of CCTV for all Slaughterhouses

And Even though, there are times when I Feel like nothing is Changing, I remind myself  that I am  making ripples within my Circle. I know this because 2 Friends have gone Vegetarian and 1 is thinking of  going Vegan since.

And when I feel Utter Despair at the Pictures and News about the Cruelty Humanity inflicts not just on Animals but on it’s own kind I have to remember that where there are negatives, there are far more positives. Where there is Evil, there is Far more Good.

Picture courtesy of CCTV for all Slaughterhouses

My Advice to anyone who Feels the same as I do at times is to Look for the positives in your life. Acknowledge what you have Achieved and what you continue to Achieve. Live each day as if it were your last and Find the Energy to Do One thing Daily to Make A Difference, However Insignificant you think it may be. It ISN’T. Instead it IS Another cog in the wheel of Change. Enjoy every moment because in any given moment, that’s All you have. Embrace those little things that cause you to be grateful, there are so many. Remember that for every mean and ignorant individual, there are far more of us that are good and striving for change. Find your solace in all of the above

picture courtesy of CCTV for All Slaughterhouses

Here is an Example from my own life that shows Why I know that Good will Overcome Evil and That We Will win for All Our Brothers and Fellow Souls…………………………………………..

Last night, we had a knock at our door. It was the lovely local lollipop lady. She had bought a pile of dolphin momentos for my daughter who she knows loves dolphins and when her daughter was throwing out a load of dolphin pictures and posters, she immediately thought of my daughter.
This lady is one of those people who you want to be around all the time. She is selfless and dedicates alot of her time to making the local school children feel special and valued.

Last night was just 1 of many acts of kindness that she plays out every day.

This is the true picture of  human nature. The atrocities that we hear about and that so many of our fellows have to bear witness to are committed by the minority.

Human nature is by default, kind, generous, compassionate, good, caring and respectful. That is really who we are and it is important not to loose sight of that.

We mustn’t forget that For Every Person we help see the truth, Many Animal Lives are saved and that is WHY we Campaign, Crusade, Raise Awareness, Educate, Blog, Facebook and Demonstrate.

And to those Friends, Family and Individuals who challenge my Beliefs and Values……. I am VEGAN for a Healthier, Kinder, More Compassionate & Sustainable Future. For YOU, YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR GRANDCHILDREN, AND ALL YOUR FUTURE GENERATIONS………Maybe you Should Consider it too?……………….

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To go against the Dominant Thinking of your Friends, of most of the people you see every day, is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform

…..Quote by Theodore H White…….

How did I decide my Values? How have I come to be here writing about them? And Why would anyone want to read about “My” Beliefs?…

What makes me so important? Why am I assuming that the virtues by which I live my life should make for a readable blog?

I Don’t.  I’m here because I have a hope that one day, our Fellow Relations will be able to live alongside us in Harmony & Peace. I Need to Believe that one day, Humanity will share an understanding & sympathy with it’s Fellow Beings, regardless of Species & the Cruelty & Killing will STOP.

There is a Christian belief that if someone is damaged, frustrated, offended or oppressed, everyone’s humanity is diminished.

I believe this is absolutely TRUE, but I would change this belief so that it reads not someONE, but ANY LIVING BEING.

My Spririt is certainly dampened, saddened & desperate by the knowledge that I share my world with humans who can inflict inhumane atrocities, barbaric acts of violence or Needless Cruelty on both their own Brothers, Sisters & Children and on The Fellow Souls that share our Planet.     

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    I am ashamed, destroyed and disgusted that I am part of the same species of de-sensitised Animal that  tortures, maims and Kills needlessly and without provocation, simply for taste, trophies, clothing, medical research,  bloody stupid ignorance, Pleasure and because we believe we are the dominant Species and therefore we Can.

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Well, we seem quite unable to be able to adapt to change. We are unwilling to adopt a vegetarian or vegan lifestyle.

Why?………….Here are a few of the excuses I have heard.

What Should I cook? How will I get my protein? I’ll have to take vitaman supplements. I won’t be able to eat out. I’ll get ill if I don’t eat some meat. It’s not good for me. We are born Omnivores. We are the Hunter gatherers, we’re supposed to kill Animals and eat them. (?!)

It’s much easier for people to stay ignorant. Most of us are aware of the harsh reality of factory farming, but choose to ignore it for the sake of an easy life munching on a steak.

As Michael Pollan, author of the book “The Omnivore’s Dilemma” says:

“eating industrial meat takes on an almost heroic act of not knowing“.

If we were asked the question “if you had a super power, what would it be?”, many of us would probably say that we would wish for world peace.

However, a great many of us deny that peace to the living beings we share this planet with. We take the life of other senient beings for their flavour and the the belief that by experimenting on them, we can find a cure for disease or  the solution to a dirty oven.

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We make choices every day. What to eat, what to wear, where to go, who to see, when to be somewhere,  what needs doing……

Life is about striving to be the person we want to be and recognising that the choices we make will cause a ripple effect not just in our lives, but in the lives of others, humankind and animal kind, and to the natual world and our planet; If our choices are based on knowledge and fact rather than routine and the status quo, we can make them with a clear conscience.

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I make my choices based on my Values, some that I remember always having, & others have become important and absolute because of how I have felt in my journey through life. I believe that Feeling is the language of the soul. I believe that if we want to know what is true for us we need to Look to how we’re  feeling about it. Hidden in our Deepest Feelings, are our Highest Truths.

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My Deepest Feelings are of Intense Hurt & Sadness, Incomprehension & Disgust, Pain & Heartache…. because of the way Human Beings treat each other and other Beings.

My Highest Truth is Being Proactive in doing my little bit to achieve Change for a Better, More Peaceful & Kinder World

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The people I meet every day,  through my work, and my friends and family inspire me to live my life according to simple values. I do this by trying to  follow these simple rules: ( I am not always successful)

  • Appreciate  the simple things in life
  • A freedom from material desires
  • Avoid waste
  • Teach economy to my kids
  • Avoid greed, fear and peer pressure
  • Generosity and Sharing
  • Putting others first with kindness, openess, purity and without expectations and conditions
  • FOLLOWING A VEGAN LIFESTYLE.

I believe that last Value of Choosing a Vegan Lifestyle emcompasses all of the Values Above…..

I appreciate The process of growing my own Food which is one of the most Basic & Simple & Oldest Forms of Lifestyle.

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I Try not to “want” for “things“. Instead, I strive to “want” for positive Change in the World and to find a way of achieving that desire.

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I strive to Follow the 3 “R”‘s of Reduce, Recycle and Reuse and Following a Vegan Diet and having 4 Rescue dogs ensures that I NEVER waste food!

By Higlighting the reason why I Follow a Vegan Lifestyle daily as often as they will listen (!) My kids are aware of that In the UK alone, 70% of all agricultural land is used to as pasture to feed animals whereas a veggie Britain would require less than half of this.

Greed & Fear Project Negative Energy onto those around us. I only have a Desire for Less Cruelty and Hope for More Understanding. I don’t react to those who believe that a Vegan Diet is harmful, but I AM proactive in promoting my reasons for being Vegan.

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I surround myself with likeminded Friends and Individuals so it is not hard to Feel Generous, Want to Share, Feel Kind, Want to Express my Feelings and Be Truthful and Pure with them. It is not so easy however, to Feel and think like that about those other Human Beings who inflict Pain & Suffering on other beings.

Instead I strive to Keep Raising Awarenesss and Promote Education so  that 1 day, those individuals WILL learn AND understand that their ignorance can no longer be tolerated.

WE ALL HAVE CHOICES TO MAKE, WE CAN STAY IN THE OLD WORLD WHERE ANIMALS ARE TREATED SOLELY AS OBJECTS TO SATISFY HUMANS, OR WE CAN LIVE BY A NEW ETHIC BASED ON RESPECT AND COMPASSION FOR ALL THOSE WE SHARE THE PLANET WITH.

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